In a cringe worthy turn of events, art curator Rajeev Sethi embarrassed Neeraj Chopra by asking about his sex life. The incident happened a few weeks after RJ Malishka was criticized by netizens for putting the gold-medal winning Olympian at the spot as she danced for him. She further made Chopra awkward by requesting a virtual hug from him.
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Recently, India’s golden boy Neeraj Chopra has been on the receiving end of some bizarre questions and interview moments.
Earlier last month, the 23-year-old athlete clinched the first ever gold medal in javelin throw and the only gold in Tokyo Olympics for India. Since then, he has been seen giving interviews and making public appearances.
Voyeuristic Attitude of Indian Media Towards Athletes
Indian athletes and sportspersons have always been on the receiving end of extremes. If and when they perform poorly, their effigies are burnt and they are widely criticized.
But when they perform well, they are given a warm returning reception and are invited to interviews and appearances to share their experience.
However, some of these interviewees blur the line of a professional interview watched by millions and a casual conversation privy to none.
Neeraj Chopra’s String of Uncomfortable Moments
Most interviews Neeraj gives are uneventful. He answers the questions with the experience of an Olympian and the innocence of a 23-year-old small town boy. But some interviews are cringe worthy and borderline unprofessional. In such interviews, Neeraj is left with his presence of mind and yet, can be seen visibly uncomfortable.
Rajeev Sethi Puts Chopra in Tough Spot
In one such instance, Neeraj was invited to an Indian Express interview event. While the event started off well, it soon derailed when art historian Rajeev Sethi asked him about his sex life. Sethi first complimented Chopra on his looks and said, “What a handsome young man you are!”
“I Said Sorry, You Know My Answer from That”: Chopra’s Dodges Bullet
Then the 72-year-old historian asked Chopra, “How do you maintain balance between your sex life and athletic training? I know it’s a weird question,” Sethi asked. Stupified by the bizzarre question, Chopra recollected his thoughts and just said “Sorry sir”.
When Sethi further tried to dig deeper, Chopra put the nail in the matter and said, “I have said sorry, you can know my answer from that.”
Realizing that he may have crossed a boundary, Sethi tried apologizing for his question to which Chopra with a composed smile on his face, “My heart is overwhelmed by your question.”
Watch the Video Here:
If you thought Malishka was Cringe WATCH Rajeev Sethi go a STEP FURTHER 😡 He asked Neeraj Chopra : "How Do you Balance your Sеx Life with your training??" Disgusted Neeraj replied "Aapke question se mera mann bhar gaya" #NeerajChopra #RajeevSethi pic.twitter.com/qwVd7hAot4
— Rosy (@rose_k01) September 3, 2021
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Netizens Slam Rajeev Sethi for Inappropriate Question
They dare to ask @Neeraj_chopra1 such uncomfortable, personal, deeply insulting questions because he is not ‘elite enough’ for their perversions. Respect to Neeraj for handling sick perverts like Rajeev Sethi well and putting them in their place politely.
— Shefali Vaidya. 🇮🇳 (@ShefVaidya) September 4, 2021
Seriously @iccr_hq @DineshKPatnaik why is ICCR providing a platform for people like @SanjoyRoyTWA and @therajeevSethi? What did ‘leading Indian designer’ Rajeev Sethi speak about it this talk on ‘weaving traditions? The balance between Jamdani weavers’ weaving and sex life? https://t.co/vIpdJXpqLp
— Shefali Vaidya. 🇮🇳 (@ShefVaidya) September 5, 2021
All a 72 yr 'art historian' can ask a Gold Medalist about his sex life ?! That's all there to frustrated libbies & wokes lives. Ugh!!
No #RajeevSethi ye behuda sawal nahi .. ye boht boht zyada behuda aur betuka sawal hai.
Sickening. Next 'low' level cringe ..!!
VC: @rose_k01 pic.twitter.com/38VrdKd2U5— Poonam Adarsh Tiwari (@patopedia) September 4, 2021
Wonder if historian #RajeevSethi is going to provide any push up or javelin throw training to #NeerajChopra that he is so keenly interested in his Sex Life
Read this tweet without any puns pls https://t.co/6lHiiCgNKq
— Arnaz Hathiram (@ArnazHathiram) September 4, 2021
Athlete wins Olympic medal.
Normal people : can you tell us about your preparation and struggle ?
Rajeev Sethi : HoW dO YoU bAlAnCe YoUr SeX lifE & tRaInInG ?
— Sai Aditya Nayudu (@ImTheSkylord) September 4, 2021
RJ Malishka’s Cringe Performance for Chopra
It should be noted that this was not the first time Chopra was made to sit during an awkward interview. Earlier, popular radio personality RJ Malishka gave Internet a daily dose of cringe when she gave a dance performance for Chopra.
Chopra, who was on a virtual interview with Malishka was flabbergasted when Malishka, along with her team, danced for Chopra. The RJ and her peers danced on ‘Ude Jab Jab Zulfein Teri’, a reference to the athlete’s long hair. Throughout the performance, Chopra kept a smile on his face, but looked visibly uncomfortable.
Ladiesssss..Yes I got the hard hitting, deep answers too but..Take the first 4 secs before the cam moves to the zoom call to guess who we are dancing for😇 😉 #udejabjabzulfeinteri and then tell me I did it for all of us😄 #gold #olympics #neerajchopra @RedFMIndia @RedFM_Mumbai pic.twitter.com/SnEJ99MK31
— Mumbai Ki Rani (@mymalishka) August 19, 2021
Soon, the netizens took Malishka up to task and panned her on social media. Some netizens blamed her for trying to hog the limelight, while others just commented on how uncomfortable the ordeal was.
I don't have anything to do with this but I still want to apologize to @Neeraj_chopra1 for this.
— Ashutosh Bhatt (@roguedoga) August 19, 2021
Ugggh! Cringe max. So basically you are perpetuating the stereotype that the man is the real achiever and women are mere mujrewalis dancing to get his attention! How sick and sexist is this. Also, you guys can’t dance to save your life.
— Shefali Vaidya. 🇮🇳 (@ShefVaidya) August 20, 2021
Sad to see you guys doing this and even sad is the fact that @RedFMIndia is allowing you all to do it.
I mean, what if the genders were opposite in this case? Had @RedFM_Mumbai allowed that too?
Very sad !
— Shashank Shekhar Jha (@shashank_ssj) August 19, 2021
She: Jaadhu ki jappi,abhi😒
**uncomfortable smile by #NeerajChopra ** followed by sensible reply"Ji aisey hi dhoor se & folds his hands🙏" this show is 101 ways to make your guest uncomfortable. FYI: He is a world class athlete+ArmyOfficer+India's 1stGold medalist(F&T)Olympics pic.twitter.com/xaXEkBhMI6— Siri (@shasiri17) August 19, 2021
Popular journalist and a less-aggressive counterpart of Arnab Goswami Navika too was slammed by netizens for putting Chopra on a tough spot. In an interview, Navika asked Chopra about his relationships status and whether he has a partner or not.
#Exclusive BIG REVELATION by Neeraj Chopra | Good news for girls!
No, I don't have any girlfriend. My only focus as of now is sports: #Olympics #Gold medalist #NeerajChopra, tells Navika Kumar. | #TokyoOlympics #NeerajOnTimesNowNavbharat pic.twitter.com/QRGvmVVeWT
— TIMES NOW (@TimesNow) August 10, 2021
Soon, she was condemned on social media by the masses unanimously.
Navika Kumar is just a regular gossip aunty who accidentally landed up in a news channel studio
— PuNsTeR™ (@Pun_Starr) August 10, 2021
अच्छा हुआ भाई बता दिया आपने कि आपकी gf नहीं है वरना आपकी चैट पढ़ने के चक्कर में लग जाती ये औरत
— Zubair (@HayaatZubair) August 10, 2021
Well it's NAVIKA KUMAR, did you expect sensible journalism from her? 😂😭 pic.twitter.com/tGt17rC516
— 𝙨𝙤𝙝𝙤𝙢 ४ (@AwaaraHoon) August 10, 2021
The real "good news for girls" is better sporting facilities, training conditions, and equal pay, not Neeraj Chopra's relationship status, but then that will involve asking questions to power and actual journalism.
— Rituparna Chatterjee (@MasalaBai) August 10, 2021